Mastering Exams: How to Overcome Pressure and Achieve Success

 

Exams—an alphabet letters everyone must face at some point in their life. Whether it’s school, college, or competitive exams, no one can escape them. It’s a universal experience for all of us living on this earth. I have sat for many exams myself, and each time, I feel the same emotions: nervousness, a sense of losing control, even nightmares. My body trembles, as if there’s a strong vibration inside me. I almost lose my confidence, fearing the tough exam paper ahead. My mind races with thoughts about my rank in the class, my reputation in front of my teachers or professors, and, of course, what my friends will think. But the most dangerous fear comes from society and the community I belong to—facing their expectations is often scarier than the exam itself.

If you belong to India, you will absolutely know the pressure a student faces from their surroundings. It's common to hear things like, "You are good; you must score at least a distinction (above 70%) to maintain your value." This constant pressure to perform well in academics can be overwhelming. In India, many parents enroll their children in coaching centres to boost academic performance, along with classes for dance, singing, computers, and more. It’s as though children are being moulded into machines, expected to excel in everything just to compete with others. Sadly, many parents don’t consider their child's abilities, passions, or hobbies—what their child truly wants to learn and develop.

We also cannot ignore the fact that education has become a vast business worldwide. In private schools, it’s common for teachers to tell parents to send their children to private tuition to better understand subjects and score higher in academics. But have you ever thought about why teachers do this? The simple answer is that it's a means for them to earn extra income. Many private school teachers earn starting salaries of only ₹12,000 to ₹15,000, which isn't enough to support a comfortable living. This financial pressure compels teachers to offer additional tutoring services.

👍Trust Yourself and Be Prepared:-

Before stepping into the exam hall, the most important thing is to trust yourself. Make sure you’ve prepared all the syllabus and have everything you need for the exam. Exams are a good way to see where we stand, but these days, people and even teachers seem to focus solely on marks, often judging students based on their results. This isn’t fair. Exams should be about learning and growth, not just numbers on a piece of paper.

Exams aren’t something most people love, but we all tend to love our results! I’m the kind of person who eagerly waits for results the moment I finish my last paper. Some students are happy if they pass, while others may feel upset if they don’t. But in my opinion, we should accept our results no matter what. Whether you pass or fail, the marks belong to you because you earned them. If you fail, don’t be disheartened. Use that experience to fuel your preparation for the next exam. Regret won’t change anything, but hard work and preparation will help you succeed the next time.

👍The Pressure of Competitive Exams:-

I’m sure you’ve heard about Kota, Rajasthan. It’s famous across India for its coaching centres and is a hub for students preparing for competitive exams. Every year, students from all over India come to Kota, hoping to secure a bright future by clearing tough exams. While many students do succeed, we’ve all heard the tragic stories of suicides there. The immense pressure from families, friends, and society is sometimes too much to handle. Students fight mental battles every day, much like soldiers do physically. This isn't just the reality of Kota; it’s the same story for coaching centres around the world. It’s a harsh reminder of the intense pressure today’s youth face.

 👍Stories of Perseverance:-

But there are also uplifting stories that give us hope. For instance, I read about a boy who passed his 10th board exams on his 11th attempt! Yes, after 10 years of trying, he finally made it, and his family celebrated his success with joy. This story shows that persistence pays off, no matter how long it takes.

Another heartwarming story is about a boy who passed his 10th board with just 35%, and his family still celebrated his success. Their happiness wasn’t about the marks, but about their child’s effort and achievement. These families remind us that every student’s journey is unique, and success should be celebrated, no matter how big or small.

👍 Conclusion: Support Matters:-

Like two sides of a coin, there are both good and bad sides to exams. I believe parents should stop burdening their children with unrealistic expectations of scoring high marks or comparing them to others. Every child is different, with unique strengths, talents, and passions. Only parents have the power to truly shape their child’s future by supporting them and understanding their needs. In today’s world, this is more important than ever.

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